voiceless

To be a childhood abuse survivor is to exist without a voice.

Nobody hears when you tell them to stop. Nobody hears when you tell them why you’re crying.

The pain of being voiceless gets better, but the desire to be heard never goes away. It permeates one’s being like a curse that has settled into one’s DNA — “Until you get people to listen to you, you will never be whole.”

Sometimes you get people to listen to you, but it doesn’t break the spell. It never will, because it cannot erase the memory of adults saying, “Are you sure?” and shrugging off your story because you are a child and they are trusted more than you.


This is what mixes up with my feelings about getting published, and it has complicated my decisions about publishing. I want to be heard but I want to be true to my experience and ideals as well. The data from Kindle Scout doesn’t bode well for me. The last two days I’ve gotten less than 20 nominations a day; my writing doesn’t grab people. I have to accept this and go on.

My next step will be to self-publish this first work (despite the fact no one will likely not read it in the swamp of Kindle) and I'm probably going to quit querying. I then have to consider whether I will continue writing just for myself.  Writing takes lots of time and I don’t have a muse to energize my soul right now, so my writing is up in the air.

So I hope you’ll stick with me and keep supporting me:

One step forward -- Kindle Scout

I have taken an intermediary step between agents and self-publishing for one of my books -- I have submitted my book details to Kindle Scout, and this is what should happen:

1. In 1-2 days, I should hear whether they've approved the book for eligibility
2. Then they submit it to a "campaign" where I see how many upvotes I get. 
3. At the end, if the book gets enough votes, it gets published.

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Why this process? Because it's vetted. Self-publishing otherwise seems like throwing the book on the sea and hoping it floats. If it comes to that, I don't know if I can do it. I don't dream of being a NYT bestselling author. I dream of someone reading my book and liking it.

Face it, though, I'm afraid of rejection again. I'm confident that I write well, but wonder if my ideas are publishable or whether I can stand up to a popular vote. I've never been popular, after all.

The book may be too gentle for people who read things like "The Meth Chronicles" and vampire stories. I'm a flower child at heart. I believe in the Peaceable Kingdom and the strength of small groups to change the world. I love people in both the general and specific sense. 

I'm not going to beg you to support me on Kindle Scout if I get that far. But I want you to think about it, because it's my dream. And please, please, any support you can give me (preferably something that reaches my eyes or ears) would make me feel better about the process.